Be a Man and LEAD her to the Bedroom

Women want to be lead to the Bedroom, not the other way around. If she has to lead, it means she's a slut. No Woman wants to be known (or even think of herself) as a slut. Besides, it's not the natural order of the universe. Women have this fantasy....A Knight in shining armor, Prince Charming, a real Man's Man that sweeps them off their feet and takes them, ravishing their bodies from top to bottom, captivating their senses, and enchanting their demeanor.

So how do you Lead a woman to the bedroom? There are many steps to the game of love. Think of it like a dance. If you don't do correctly, a Woman KNOWS! It's not so much about saying the right things, or even doing the right things. It is about NOT making a mistake, about NOT missing the right step at the right time. You can take plenty of time in courting a woman, doing things that aren't wrong, and still be successful. But as soon as you do make a wrong turn, or step on her feet, or show in any way you have no idea what you're doing, it's over.

You must be a MAN when courting a woman. Be The Dominant one. Be ALPHA. I'm telling you to be the guy who gets laid. That guy is confident in what he's doing. He knows that he's going to get laid, because he knows he's an alpha male. He knows that women and people in general want to be with him. He doesn't worry what others think about him, or whether he's doing the right thing. He takes control of a situation with authority. He Dominates! He knows he's fun to be with because he is always having a good time and therefore he IS fun to be with. He knows that if he is in a group of guys and girls, he will be the one the girls choose to be with, and by having this to be the expected outcome, it is a self-fufilling profecy.

I'm not telling you to be an asshole. Most guys see girls with 'Jerks' and assume they have to be as well. This is simply not true. Jerks do get laid, but not because they are jerks, but because they are the dominant ones. Women, by nature, are NOT dominant. They don't want to be dominant. When a guy takes them out, buys them gifts, and supplicates, he's telling the woman "I'm putting you in the dominant position. You can have the power. I'll do anything for you as long as you give me acceptance." Nothing turns a woman off faster!

When I go after a woman, I let her know it! I prefer direct approaches because they work. If you don't state your interest early, a woman assumes one of two things: Either 1) you are not interested in her, or 2) you aren't man enough to let her know it, even though she already does. Girls don't like shy guys that hold their feelings inside. Quiet guys worry them. Quiet guys are hiding something. Quiet guys are not honest with them. People in general are not scared of "Loud" folks. They tell you exactly what's up, and usually have fun doing it. It's the quiet guy in the corner that will turn into a stalker. Don't be the quiet guy.

-Blade